how much info that u share wid ur frnds can be considered so much so that it can be harmful to you? as the first rule of friendship, according to me, u should not have secrets with your dearest friends, right? but still, there are some things that if slip out of your mouth can do harm to someone or even you.
now, despite the fact that i love my friends from the bottom of my heart, there are a few times when we end up having arguments, disagreeing with each other or just simply having little tiffs. so, i end up saying things that i'm not supposed to in front of my other friends who become the third party in the situation. does this qualify as "too much info"? or does it simply mean that i'm friends with bloody gossipmongers जो इधर की बात उधर करते हैं? cmon, isn't it really idealistic to feel that i should never think ill about my friends? i mean, being a human, i'm bound to get irritated by every person around me for some or the other reason, aren't i?
at the same time, if you think about it, every person has the right to have secrets that he or she doesnt share with anyone but self. secrets which are buried deep down inside your heart and noone has any clue about it. and i think that it's not right to expect your friends to tell you everything about their lives. and, as friends, we should understand and respect our friends' privacy.
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Well, you are Rite Roli at ur point....but let me know u one thing...when u hav sumthing in ur mind...it's secret...but as soon as it's coming out from ur mouth to anyone let it be ur frds or anyone else...it's not d secret then...it's open to everyone....rite???
ReplyDeleteA very wise Intelluctual Kabir said that u shud keep ur secrets always wid u....u don't know..who can play wid ur secret and make ur life miserable for time being...!!
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